The Pretender???

Not this man bashing, bitter joant post again!!! Sorry not this time... But since writing that blog, I can't help but refer back to the post every chance I get... For instance, yesterday, Jennifer Hudson & Neyo's song "Act Like a Woman, Think Like a Man" came on the radio. Now I've heard this song a million times but, for some reason Neyo's verse stuck out... Here it is

Now I'm gonna keep it realer with you now that I've ever been We should have never been, girl we was better friends You didn't have to tell me what, where, why and when Ooh why I didn't need it, Cause you wasn't my girlfriend, we had a good thing You would come by and see me, ooh give me that good thang Then after we were finished, You go your way, I go my way, it was whatever Tell me what in the hell makes us Think this wanna gonna be better And now I'm telling you lies, All because I hate to see the tears in your eyes Of course I want my cake, and eat it too, I'm a guy And of course, you don't understand, But you would if you thought like a man in love

Does this sound like a "pretender" to you or am I reaching???