Recently, I had a long conversation with my bff. It was a typical conversation about what's going on in our lives. You know, good, old fashioned girl talk. Somehow, we got on the topic about my man pattern... Man pattern - "adj: describes the habitual characteristics of the men in your life"
My bff thinks my ideal man looks like this...
Lives here
and drives this
However, my man pattern suggests a guy that looks more like this
give or take a few pounds... give or take a few years... but you get the point (I hope)
lives here with his mom or grandma or aunt or whomever
or
or here if he lives out maryland
He drives
or
I explained to her that the first type of dude just isn't for me... Our personalities just don't mesh well... I'm too normal for him and he's too extra for me. First of all I love gogo... And these types of dudes HATE gogo... They like places like Bar 7. These are the types of dudes who forget they used to win beat your feet contest at the Hot Shoppes. They approach you like you're supposed to give him your number. Nah, I'm good
The dudes who fit my current male pattern just make a better match... One reason is prolly cuz I live around the corner, or down the street lol. Meaning we're not too much different from each other. We can relate... I don't judge them & they don't judge me. Their approach SEEMS more sincere... even though their goals are the same
Now it's really nothing wrong with either types of men... After all we can't help who we like, right??? Well my bff seems to think otherwise and I respect her opinion. I'll try to keep an open mind (I guess) At the end of the day she just wants what's best for me. And who knows, she may be right. But for now... I'm chillin... turn the lights on
